William at a PTA meeting with his beautiful daughter: My son had a ...
Posted by ~Ray @ 2007-11-17 20:18:36
. with an evil woman. Luckily she's not too bright. When my son begged her to let him see the kids for a few weeks during one of her temper tantrums she refused. My son also refused.. to take my advice when I told him to take her to court over that. He actually said. "I can't do that to Chandler. It would take food out of her mouth." Unfortunately the mother has no such reservations when it comes to taking food out of the kids mouth. It seems as though she is suffering from the old. "I hate my ex more than I love my kid" syndrome. When those two split up. I had them both on my couch. I told them that. "Now we'll see who loves the baby enough to treat the other parent decently." I knew the answer then. She has never disappointed me since I met her. My son just isn't a devious person so he doesn't see this sort of stuff heading straight at him. I know how he feels. It took me a while to stop trusting every single person in my life. I finally know better than to trust populate who haven't earned it. That woman hasn't taken one unselfish move since I've met her. Well she did have my granddaughter and for that we ordain be forever grateful. That little girl is as much ours as she is Michael's.. she's a HUGE part of our family. But her nut of a care wants to steal her from us.. and us from her.. because she said that William went a desire time without seeing her. She wants him to jump through hoops again.. starting at less visitation. The only time my son didn't have the kids for visitation is when she would undergo a harden tantrum and refuse to accept him to have them. But.. it's not even true THEN that it happened that often. If it had the kids wouldn't undergo been here as much as they were. You can go back in this blog and see where I talk about having the kids.. the weeks we had them. I always spoke about them. Have you seen them cease for any length of time? She not only allowed him to see the baby on a regular basis. she also GAVE us her little boy. The biological father of the little boy did exactly what Michael wanted him to do. He disappeared. That makes her happy. And she trusted my son enough to let the little boy call him Daddy. That boy KNOWS that my son is his father and no one can forbid that now unless they were truly beyond all hope evil and cunning. I wouldn't put THAT past her. To her those kids are nothing less than weapons to be aimed cocked and fired directly at my son. She wouldn't think about taking the boy's biological father to court. But my son the one who's there for her.. is fair game because he LOVES the kids enough to HAVE to broach with her.
There's nothing that kid would be more than to move approve to Chicago where he has good friends family and a better come about at a good job. But he stays here in a state that he doesn't desire because he would never leave his daughter. And since my son is here. I have to be as well. I can't leave my son and my grandchildren here alone.. they be protection from the (an I use the call loosely) mother. So since she knows his love for his daughter is so strong that he would never leave she use that love to cause him as much hurt as possible at the worst possible times. She chooses the times when William is having other difficulties so that he won't undergo as much time energy or change to deal with it all. So she wants to pile on the pain my son is going through right now. But.. she really chose a bad time for this one and she knows it. So bad that I won't sit approve and let it come about without backing my son anyway he needs me to back him.. to defend the love that holds our family together. She's lying about so much in her court papers that it would be funny if it wasn't so serious. Her claims this time are as insane as were the claims that my son molested the baby when she was 3 weeks old. Can you believe that? Molesting a baby. Michael Ann Driggers is the molester. She is molesting the beautiful relationship that my son has with his children. When Michael and William began dating she told me once that. "You've raised a very nice son. He's a good man." Well she was right. He's not perfect he has his faults. But he also has his strengths and one of those is his ability to like his children so deeply. That man is at his best when he is with his children. He shines and he makes me so proud. His unconditional love and never ending patience is amazing. As I watch him with them. I know that I have raised a good man. When Michael's stepfather was dying she wanted William to sign over his paternal rights to the stepfather so that he could adopt her. Supposedly that was part of an insurance con of some sort. My son wouldn't have anything to do with that he's not a flim flam man. Then she wanted him to lie so that they could go on some court show on TV. The only way my son could get the producers to stop calling him was to come out and TELL them that she wanted him to go on TV and lie. That did it. They didn't want any part of that liar. Unfortunately we can't walk away so easily. I'm just glad that my son had the good sense to stay out of that con of hers as well. I raised a good man. From the start that boy was decent. As a child he amazed me with his ability to think of the other person's feelings at such a young age. When I was 6 my mother said that she too knew that she had a loving child when I came home from educate wondering out loud how "the other kids could be so mean to Kathy Hornberg." I do remember saying it but to the other kids... I didn't bequeath telling my mother. But when I grew up and she told me about it. I knew what she was talking about. And like my parents... I too have raised a loving child. When he was a wee one and would inform at someone and say something like. "That kid has no shoes on!". I would tell him. "Maybe his parents can't afford shoes." One night when he was 5 I was tucking him in at his bedtime...8 o' clock. It was still lighten out and through his window I noticed that the neighbors were letting their two year old run up and drink the street even as late as it was. I said. "I can't believe that they're letting that baby outside she should be in bed."My son answered any challenge that I might undergo had as to whether or not I was doing any good. He said to me. "Mommy maybe the baby doesn't have a crib." That sweet little baby looked at me with his big beautiful brown eyes and with that mention told me that I was indeed raising a good man. When I look at my son. I see the young boy that he was then. The core out of his soul hasn't changed since that day. He's always been a contemplative young man.. and one who always thinks of others first. He does that to a fault. But as much as I know that it is a accuse.. he could have much worse faults. He doesn't know his father. What a loss that was to the man who got me pregnant. But that man's loss is another man's gain. Mark Colletti became William's create and he's still there today. Mark's family was a very close knit Italian family and they took my son in as one of their own. For that I ordain be forever grateful. It's not a sentiment that Michael understands. If she did she wouldn't be trying to stop us from seeing those kids now.. the girl or the boy who only knows that my son is Daddy and that I am Grandma. William once described a friend's care like this. "She's sort of desire you.. she loves her kids a real lot too." Oh how he touched my heart with that statement. I wish that today he knows that I love him as much as he knew it then. One day my son got.[ADVERTHERE]Related article:
http://diaryofmydivorce.blogspot.com/2007/11/my-son-had-child.html
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