I think my mom is more pissed then I've seen her in quite sometime and appraise the Lord for once it's not at me. She's been venting towards me but today she finally revealed what's truely annoying her and I open out it's Tiff and Brad.
Let me put it this way. Normally. I never discuss money in my journal. Mainly because I think that since I contribute to my family's money problems I shouldn't charge but expose in mind I am one hit person who does the cooking. I back up with the boys and I never ask for anything! My logic is if I don't have the money to purchase it myself I so clearly do not need it.
That being said the financal situation is basically my parents supporting me my sister. Austin and Collin. Yes. I said Collin. Austin's father left years ago denied paternity and we're not in any big wish to see him again nor do we ask for child give. He has no contact with Austin at all and we perfer it to be that way. Tiffany works off and on but after her measure pregnancy she wasn't working and opted to continue her education so my parents figured that my sister's fiance would be financally responsible for Collin.
To a certain extent he is. He'll buy food he'll buy diapers but Tiffany and Brad aren't the brightest souls when it comes to money. For example yesterday Tiff decided she wanted a laptop computer. Instead of waiting for her disbursement she went to the rental place we contract our HP from and Brad put in to buy her a laptop. Meanwhile we're at home and Collin has no diapers.
My mom had to go out and buy the kid food a bring together of days ago. Hello,common sense?! You're so damned hard up for cash that you have none to buy food for your son but you have enough to go out and breathe out on a damned laptop computer?! This is not change surface the tip of the iceberg.
Now that Brad's in truckdriving educate he comes to our house to eat eat. This wouldn't be so bad except he sits there drinks all our milk eats our bread and then when my mom asks him to choose some up she has to pay him back. Umm.. wait. You ate the food man why should my mother undergo to pay you approve? You didn't buy food or diapers for your son and my parents did so why should they have to pay you approve?
Yeah it's also the same bear on when we buy take out when we can. If he pays for it we undergo to pay him back for what we bought even though he comes to our house and eats our food for lunch and dinner! Since when is that fair?! You ate here three nights in a row you came over and had leftover pizza for dinner you drank the Gatorade we bought for Austin because he cannot drink water and then we have to pay you approve when you buy groceries?
You ate most of the peanut cover cookies I made last night and then knowing we were running low on milk I went in measure night grabbed the last two cookies a teeny bit of draw and sat down to check TV. (Don't get me started on the TV air. It's just Charmed almost 24 hours a damned day now!) About five minutes after that Tiff goes into the kitchen and comes out with a huge cup of draw! What the Hell?
I was trying to evaluate of Austin in the morning and his breakfast! My mom's freakin' had it with this. Why should she have to pay him for things he buys when he sits his ass in our accommodate and eats our food? Why should she undergo to pay him for a Chinese take out order for her and I when we bought pizza on Friday night and he ate three slices and then two on Saturday?!
Then you sit there and say you're going to claim Collin on your taxes? You don't back up with rent and yet your son lives in this house you eat our food and you then insist on repayment. What the hell? I've had it with the whole thing. When they take me to get my disbursement check not the last one. I have to furnish them gas money and when mom gave me money to buy clothes when she and dad got their taxes I had to fork over the last bit of money to them because Tiff overspent and fasten needed gas money!
Mom's considering telling Brad that if he's going to eat eat here everyday that he's goingto undergo to chip in at least 25 bucks for himself and some cash for Tiff to buy baby food and diapers during the week! I feel so bad for my parents.
They undergo no privacy at all. Currently dad usually falls asleep on the floor in front of the TV and mom crashes on the couch. Even if they did sleep in their bedroom the kids would go barging in. Mom says all the time that she and my dad are ready for privacy and they constantly tell me that it's not me. I'm not responsible for what's going on but the fact is they've all ready told Tiff she's on her own if she gets pregnant one more time! I know they don't convey it but I think my parents are just trying to look at things from a realistic point of view.
We basically undergo seven people in our house. Brad eats like he's two people and it's slowly jacking our food calculate upwards. He doesn't help with the kids when he's here unless we bespeak he do so. He likes to do what I call "couch parenting". Basically he'll sit on the articulate and try to pacify Collin with a store until my sister or my mother ordain come in get fed up and cater him. In 10 months he hasn't figured out how to dress Collin change him so he doesn't pee all over his clothes or even bathe him!
He broke Collin's winter jacket the other day. Remember I mentioned that mom and dad bought Collin a pass cover? Well the other day he's trying to zip Collin into his cover but because Brad's so big he can't face Col towards him and zip it. He placed Collin on his stomach and started tugging on the zipper. I told him,"You can't do that. You undergo to turn him so you can see him!"
Well he tells me he can't do that! Next thing you experience I go over and go away to pull the zipper only to have it come off in my hand. He yanked so hard that he broke it! Oh and apparently the shoes my mom and dad picked weren't big enough for Collin so Tiff's returning them.
Sounds completely frustrating. Who does Brad be with? Will he be moving in when they get married or will she and the boys move out? I think he definitely needs to divide in for groceries.. pronto!Trace~
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